Analysis and Enlightenment of Interpersonal Relationship Conflicts of Freshmen in Dormitory

Abstract

Interpersonal relationship refers to the psychological and social connection formed by mutual influence between people in the process of interaction (Shen, 2008). Dealing with dormitory interpersonal relationship plays an important role in college students' study, life, physical and mental health development. From the perspective of the counselor's work, based on the case of a male dormitory interpersonal conflict incident in freshman year, this paper considers that the counselor can effectively resolve the interpersonal conflict in the dormitory of college students by the following methods: (1) Anticipate and deal with emergencies in a timely manner; (2)Guide students to resolve conflicts on their own through communication; (3) Build the "micro-culture" of dormitory; (4) Give full play to the role of class committee in class management. This paper provides practical reference for counselors to carry out dormitory management for freshmen and deal with interpersonal crisis events of college students.